A Note from Stefanie (Library for the Kind)
Drag Queen Story Hour promotes inclusion, diversity and all levels of kindness into storytime. These programs are run all over the world in libraries and other public spaces.
We have had the privilege to speak to Bella Noche, who is the Chapter Organizer for the Long Island Chapter of DQSH. Her passion for spreading kindness and empathy through storytime programs is inspiring.
Even as some communities reject this program, Bella has continued on reading and singing with children proving that love always wins and everyone’s differences make them the wonderful person they are.
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What was your inspiration to become involved in library storytimes and what is the most rewarding part of DQSH for you?
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By trade, I’m a writer. It’s what I have my degree in, and books have always been an important part of my life. I also used to work with kids in my high school and college years. So when I heard about Drag Story Hour, I instantly knew I wanted to be part of it.
One of the most rewarding things about doing DSH is combining my love of books with my art of drag to bring queer stories and education to families. I truly wish I had something like that when I was growing up.
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What are your pronouns? What can you tell us about pronoun use with drag queens in general?
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When I’m in drag, I use the pronouns she/her. Out of drag, I go by he/him (usually).
However, drag has really allowed me to redefine the way I see my gender, so I respond to both. Or all. Haha. As of right now, I identify with both.
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Children are full of questions. I know I have gotten some interesting inquiries from them! What is the most awkward question a child has asked you and what is your favourite thing that a child has asked you during storytime?
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Honestly, the most common question I get asked from the kids is, “Is your hair real?” And it really shows that kids don’t see a man dressed up as a woman. They just see a fantastical character with a sparkly outfit and fabulous hair.
It’s the adults who usually have the problem separating the character from the sexual orientation or gender identity.
My absolute favorite thing a child has asked me at a Story Hour is, “The next time you visit your mermaid family under the sea, can I go with you?” My heart almost couldn’t handle the cuteness overload.
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You are an organizer for DQSH on Long Island, NY. Can you tell us about the organization?
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Yes, I’ve been the Chapter Organizer of DQSH Long Island for 4 years now. Drag Story Hour brings drag performers of all types and identities to bring queer education to kids and families through engaging story telling. Many of our books are written by queer authors or deal with the themes of uniqueness, acceptance, diversity and love.
We go to schools, libraries, churches and other educational spaces, and all ages are welcome. Last year, I was even able to do a Story Hour at the Metropolitan Museum of Art. THAT was amazing.
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What does DQSH involve, such as what books do you recommend reading and what activities do you do with the children?
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A typical Story Hour will have a reading of three different books, interspaced with activities and a craft. My favorite game to play with an audience is “Bella Says,” a rendition of “Simon Says”. You’d be surprised how many of the adults get into it too!
The books I read usually have to deal with loving yourself and embracing your differences. It’s something I had to teach myself over many painful years, so embedding those ideas in a child early on I feel is really important.
Taken from LI Herald
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There has been push back regarding DQSH by some people. What would you say to reassure library leadership who may be nervous about having this program?
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I often compare Drag Story Hour to one of those princess parties. It’s not very different having a woman dressed up as Princess Ariel to come read as it would be for a man dressed up as a mermaid princess to come in and read. The idea is the same. It just has different wrapping paper.
Taken from The Office for Intellectual Freedom of the American Library Association blog
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How do you deal with communities that are not as welcoming to this inclusive program?
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Unfortunately, there are still many who do not like DSH and protest it. I will say though, there have been many accepting and welcoming communities in New York City and Long Island. I’ve had a few of my readings out here draw protesters in front of the library, but every time that has happened the library staff has been very protective of both me and the children, so knowing you have that support is a true gift.
Taken from Idaho State Journal
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Do you feel safe running these programs? What can we do as librarians to make this experience better for you?
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Up here in the Northeast, thankfully things are more liberal and the level of pushback isn’t severe enough where I don’t feel safe. I can’t say that for all of our chapters, such as the ones in the South, that have faced multiple threats of protest and even violence.
Librarians are usually the last line of defense in the event that a Story Hour is being protested. In my experience, reassuring the storyteller as well as making sure any protesters are out of sight and sound from the reading is always the best bet. Not just for the reader, but for the families present.
Taken from article ” The ALA said in a statement that it “strongly opposes any effort to limit access to information, ideas and programs that patrons wish to explore,” The Guardian reported.”
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What is the goal of programs like DQSH and what do you wish everyone understood about drag?
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The goal of DSH is to spread messages of love and acceptance, while also educating families on queer culture and reassuring any young LGBTQ attendees that they are beautiful and special just they way they are, whoever they are or decide to become.
I wish everyone understood that drag is truly for everyone. All ages, all genders, all backgrounds can enjoy and experience the art of drag. We are a loving and welcoming community committed to spreading positivity and love.
Take from Washington Post. This is a photo of Lil Miss Hot Mess who is Author of “The Hips on the Drag Queen go Swish, Swish, Swish“
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What is the best compliment you’ve received on your programs?
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The best compliment I’ve ever received was from a mother who brought their son to my reading. He was very enthusiastic the entire time, and had on sparkly bracelets with a little tiara on.
After the reading as the kids were doing their craft, their mother came to me and said, “He really loved this. He’s always been different and loves to dress up. When I told him about this, he couldn’t wait to come. Just now he came up to me and said, ‘Mommy! I know what I want to be when I grow up! I want to be a mermaid drag queen!’ You have no idea how much this means to him and me both. Thank you for doing this.”
I was speechless. I almost cried. THAT is the point of Drag Story Hour. I carry that story with me at each one of my readings as a reminder and encouragement of why I do this. I’ll never ever forget that moment.
We’ve got a Picture Book for that!
I want to thank Bella Noche for her time in answering our questions. Her love of books, storytime and bringing inclusive programming to the library is very clear.
You can learn even more about Bella on her website or Facebook! Also, visit the Drag Queen Story Hour page to book a Drag Queen to read at your programs!
-Stefanie
